Call me beautiful.

October 28, 2012


Today I was called beautiful.

No, it wasn’t from my parents, friends, or boyfriend (which I don’t have).  It was by one of my guy friends I have recently become friends with, and it was probably the sweetest things I ever heard.  We were eating chow and it was just a normal day, talking, joking about whatever when he stopped and said my name.  He looked at me and told me that I have beautiful eyes.  He made it obviously clear that his intentions were not anything besides just giving me a compliment (he’s married, it’s all good).  He just want to tell my that I had beautiful eyes.  I felt like I froze in that moment, I can only ever remember one other time a guy called me beautiful, and it was the most amazing compliment ever.

Guys, you don’t realize how much beautiful, gorgeous, or adorable can make a girl feel.  You actually have to mean it though, and I could tell he did.

I want to meet the one.  Being here with all these people in marriages, engagements, and relationships makes me want to have that same relationship.  You can just tell how much these people love their significant other, and how much they missed them after basic training.  I want to meet someone that loves me that much and always wants to be with me and is my best friend that I would love.  It just sounds to perfect, but I am picky because I don’t want to regret rushing into a relationship just because I wanted to be in one.  I want someone that I can be completely comfortable with all the time and always enjoying each others’ company.

I am in such a lovey/guy crazy mood.  I just want to be loved, called beautiful, and held.  But for the right reasons with the right person.

I’m pretty sure I can ramble about this all day, I’m such a teenage girl.

Now here comes the rant side of this post…

 

Calling girls hot, sexy, pointing out how you like their butt and boobs is not cool.  At least don’t do that crap around other females.  I like to pretend that guys have class and don’t only look at a girl for her body, so stop making that difficult by doing it all the time!  I don’t care if you she think is ridiculously hot, that’s great, but no one else except your “bros” care.

I think I have mentioned this before, but I never do that with my guy friends.  I am very aware about not mentioning how hot some guy is right in front of them.  It just makes things uncomfortable for everyone, sometimes even makes people feel insecure.  I leave the guy-drooling between me and my girlfriends, where it belongs!  Plus I don’t even think I call guys “hot” all that often.  It seems weird to call someone I don’t know sexy or hot, it feels degrading.  Normally when I find a guy attractive, I usually end up calling them gorgeous.  It sounds strange, but in my eye they are just so freaking gorgeous and that’s the best word I can come up with.  Heck, I call guys beautiful too.  I call them that because it just feels right, and it makes me appreciate the beauty that God put on Earth (Wow I’m cool).  And calling them gorgeous makes me want to know more about their personality, what their family is like, their background, I want to get to that person – not have sex or something (which I am not going to do until marriage anyway!).

This is a plea to all the males out there,

Please stop degrading females through your nasty comments, and more importantly in front of other females, even if they are your friend, it’s never appreciated.

 

Why aren’t people more sensitive?  Every girl wants to be called beautiful.

 

Later,

Kelsey.

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